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INDEX Archbishop's Column ......................2 The Catholic Difference ..................4 Nun of the Above quiz ....................4 Letters to the Editor .......................4 World/Nation.................................. 20 Puzzle Page..................................... 21 Bulletin Board ................................ 22 Service Directory .......................... 23 www.DenverCatholicRegister.org I Follow us on INSIDE CATHOLIC LIFE 113 Years of Service to the Gospel Volume LXXXIX - No. 43 DECEMBER 18, 2013 Life lesson: God's in charge BY JULIE FILBY VIDEO STILL Bells set tone for worship PAGE 2 MARRIAGE Archdiocese to create crosscultural marriage programs PAGE 3 T "The Star of Bethlehem" by Edward Burne-Jones (1890) he Denver Catholic Register wishes all our readers a blessed Christmas and a joyous new year. We remind you that the Register traditionally does not publish the last week of December (Dec. 25) or the first week of January (Jan. 1). The first issue of the Register in 2014 will be Jan. 8. If someone told 28-yearold Brittany Cameron at the beginning of the year she'd have brain surgery, lose her best friend, and be without a fulltime job and health insurance at the end of the year, she would've laughed. "It's been crazy," she told the Denver Catholic Register. "But God has shone through in those moments." The year's challenges, while leaving her vulnerable, also revealed new strength in her— strength fostered by God's divine support as well as the practical support of others— strength to carry her into a new year. Cameron has been living with a tumor in her pituitary gland since doctors diagnosed it 12 years ago. Though noncancerous, it warranted a strict routine of medication and regular magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) testing. "I'd have good days and bad days," she said. "Basically, I just tried to ignore it." Last January, an MRI detected changes to the tumor. She tried to remain cautiously optimistic as she headed to a follow-up appointment with her neurosurgeon. At the same time, she was suffering with shingles and had a heavy heart as she grieved the passing of her pet and "best friend" of 13 years, Chewy, a Lhasa Apso mix. "I was thinking 'I really need good news today,'" she recalled. She was not prepared for the news the doctor delivered: "We need to do major brain surgery." "I was shocked," Cameron said, not only because of the seriousness of the surgery to Arapahoe shooting PHOTO BY NISSA LAPOINT/DENVER CATHOLIC REGISTER SOPHOMORE student Tori Gilliard hugs her parents after being reunited Dec. 13 following a shooting at Arapahoe High School in Centennial. Read story on Page 3. remove the tumor, but also the ensuing time in intensive care and need to take several weeks off from her fulltime job as a corporate event manager. She was also in the thick of training for her third Tough Mudder challenge—a 12-mile obstacle course that tests participants' strength, stamina and mental toughness with a series of hurdles such as mud, fire and ice-water. "I was really bummed," she said of not being able to participate in the event she had planned for May in Chicago. "The Tough Mudder training really aligned to my spiritual discipline and was keeping me going." In May, surgery successfully removed 99 percent of the tumor. While recovering, Cameron was overcome by the support she received from family, friends and her faith community at St. Thomas More Parish in Centennial where she serves as a lay minister for the young adult group. "I hate receiving help," she said. "But I had to let others in. … I was overwhelmed by the support of people being there with me, praying for me and helping me physically." During that time, a friend reminded her that "even Jesus couldn't carry his own cross." "That really humbled me," she said. "It taught me to let others help, which was really a different experience for me." Following a recent reorganization with her employer, Cameron is now faced with losing her health insurance coverage as of Dec. 31, a significant See Brittany, Page 13 CHRISTMAS Catholic Christmas Calendar PAGE 6 Book considers joys and trials of Mary's faith journey PAGE 8 Homeless young people find joy, hope at Christmas party PAGE 9

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